Ordinarily I don’t feel compelled to write while away on holiday (unless I’m being tortured on a huge family trip to Thailand or Bali) but I wanted to write a brief post saying how gutted I am to hear Amy Winehouse died today at her Camden home (just up the road from me in North London). She was 27 and is now being classed in the “27 Club “of famous musicians who all died at the same age… Jimi Hendrix, Curt Kobain, Janis Joplin, Jim Morrison …the list goes on. It’s such a damn shame when sometimes, despite all of life’s attempts to save you, there is just no help to be given (or taken) when you have such a strong addiction, whether it be alcohol, drugs, painkillers…whatever.
Winehouse’s debut album Frank in 2003, followed by her Back to Black album in 2006 (one of my all time favourites), gained her numerous Grammys two years later and firmly established her in the world of Music. I’ll always remember watching her sing Live at the Ascot Races many years ago (early 2004), before she became a huge Star, and thinking, “Wow, that girls amazing!”.
People should now simply focus on her music and less on how her life has panned out over the last couple of years. Many may not be surprised about her sudden death, especially following her performance in Belgrade last month, which I guess prompted her to cancel her 12-leg European Tour until further notice. I, however, was certainly shocked and saddened this evening while watching the News. I always thought Winehouse would eventually turn it all around.
She was an incredible Singer/Songwriter and her amazing talent will live on in her soulful music always. RIP Amy.
Nancy Kissel’s Appeal Rejected in Court
For those of you who didn’t know anything about this case (as I hadn’t until I arrived in Hong Kong), this whole story is gripping. As an ex-litigation lawyer, maybe I’m a little too fascinated but nothing in this case makes sense. How did this woman, Nancy Kissel, go ahead and just kill her husband like that….. AND then sleep in the same bedroom as him for a few days until getting some workmen to help her move his dead body. BLOODY HELL!!!??
I’ve read some comments on Asiaexpat and some things seem to be said by people who actually knew the couple, and others from scared ex-pats (like myself!) who think….. what could have gone sooo wrong when this (what appeared to be) nice, normal family moved to Hong Kong. I kept giving the Captain updates while I read this book (in just under half a day as it as soo gripping.). If there were any similarities between us as people or women, it shit me up.
For a start, not all ex-pat wives are complete materialistic arseholes who come here to spend loads of their husbands hard-earned cash. Some of us are just getting on with a new life, and with young babies (my case), its fucking hard. Yes there are days I want to kill my husband…. but not literally, and its usually over the complete mess he makes in our flat from the minute he walks in (seriously…. he’s so messy it like he strips off as he walks in.. shoes… socks…. belt…tie….wallet…. its like following a trail of breadcrumbs if you ever want to find him).
Anyhow….back to the murder…. To be fair, aside from her initial difficulty settling into Hong Kong life, where, and I quote from the book “Never Enough” that “men flourish.. and women can flounder” here … the rest of her personality seems a little, well, unhinged!? She claims she had put up with years of sexual and physical abuse which made her finally snap. This is a woman who people said was quite pushy when she wanted her own way, at times very rude, loudmouthed and often fucking outspoken (again, I’m not saying this personally … although I agree having read up on it, but this is all out there on the internet).
Had she have called the police the minute she killed him, she may have had a slightly different sentence as it would have been totally unplanned. BUT, she didn’t. She hid him (in a rug in her bedroom) and went shopping for new furniture to cover up all the blood from bashing his skull in. It was all pre-meditated right from the start … I mean… drugging his drinks months before, and then the fatal “Milkshake” that she asked her daughter to hand over to her Dad. What must be going through that child’s head now? Apparently she did all of this to be with her lover back in Vermont, who by the way, is now married to someone else and has asked the Prison Nancy Kissel is staying in to stop her sending him letters (shes didn’t write to her kids apparently for months but, this bloke who doesn’t give a crap about her…. well he got a shit loada letters he doesn’t even want).
What a nasty piece of work. Why not just get a fucking divorce and at least she wouldn’t be in jail for life, her ex-husband would have met someone who genuinely cared about him, and maybe her kids would actually be talking to her. Apparently her family and “supporters” are worried about her massive weight loss. They don’t think she will survive life in jail. Well….. err… call me old-fashioned but WHY THE FUCK DO THE CRIME?! What did she think the police were going to say when they found out?! “Oh it’s alright. She’s a Gweilo (* AKA “foreign ghost”, or in my opinion, a fairly derogatory term for someone not chinese) so let her go..!”
Now I’m not one to be judgemental about people (throwing stones in glass houses & all that crap) but, taking anyones life, is wrong on every single level. It’s as simple as that.